Why?

Men usually have different perception of sexual intercourse than women. Those are mainly traditional and unacceptable believes which need to be changed. In this activity you have the chance to change wrong and old attitudes to new ones acceptable for both genders.

How?

•  Yes – if you think that statement is valid and acceptable

•  No – if you find statement unacceptable.

To show love towards partner

Fear that relationship without sex can't hold on

Curiosity

Believe that “everybody is doing that”

Pleasure

To gain popularity

Because both partners want it

Because of money or gift

Fear of physical and psychological abuse

Because partner asks for it

Fear from pregnancy

Fear from AIDS or other STD

Family rules

Fear from carcinoma of genital organs (uterus)

Friendship – let it develop

There are other ways to show love

Religious believes

Immaturity

“Wrong” person

No sex before marriage

Why?

Sometimes it is hard to say “No” or to postpone sexual intercourse. Little excuses can be helpful in those situations.

How?

Tick “E” for those that you think are Easy to use and can work, and “D” for ones that you think are Difficult to use or will not work.

Always go out with a lot of friends

Set up clear limit – to where you can go

Set limits in alcohol

Avoid romantic bursts

From very begging it should be very clear what is wished and expected, and “double messages” should be avoided

Living the place as soon as situation get unpleasant

Avoid socializing with persons that can pressure you

Sincerity from beginning – if you do not want sex you should clearly say it

Avoid going out with persons that you are not familiar with or that can't be trusted

Do not seat in car with unknown person

Avoid deserted and dark places

Do not accept money or gifts from unknown persons

Find other ways of expressing care rather then only sex